( it's complicated and he's not thinking hard on it for many reasons, most involving low personal self worth and eq, which. well. )
Please just ask that he pick somewhat decent timing, if it's near where I live Jiang Cheng's going to keep locking me out, I really don't need to be bothering Lan Zhan this much. Can't he just. Can we go for coffee. Can I meet your cop boyfriend for coffee so he can vet me over caffeine, that feels the most humane thing here!
( no comment on the legalities, since it's a reality they all know. along with: )
There's that go overseas thing, right? Anyway, that's not a concern, nothing to say, no worries, no thoughts, officially dropped! The teasing will cease for now.
I hate rich people problems. This is a rich people problem! Please, rent out your apartment, you don't need the money but then it's paying for its upkeep. It's more economical than sitting there unoccupied! Spare me the thought of the waste, ah, it's giving me a headache, all that unclaimed space...
Look, I'm quoting my jiejie again, so if it sounds sweet that's the only reason why, but people grow up when they grow up, and you can grow in love like you do anything else. It's not so bad being hitched to one cart for your life, if that's how you love, but here's the me part of the advice: not knowing if you are or aren't is fine too. Worrying about the future, why? Don't end up doing that when the now is a moment you have to live in too.
But seriously. Tell Wenzhou with all my respect, please can we just meet for coffee! I don't need surprise ambushes by police officials. That never goes well! It statistically only goes poorly!
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Please just ask that he pick somewhat decent timing, if it's near where I live Jiang Cheng's going to keep locking me out, I really don't need to be bothering Lan Zhan this much. Can't he just. Can we go for coffee. Can I meet your cop boyfriend for coffee so he can vet me over caffeine, that feels the most humane thing here!
( no comment on the legalities, since it's a reality they all know. along with: )
There's that go overseas thing, right? Anyway, that's not a concern, nothing to say, no worries, no thoughts, officially dropped! The teasing will cease for now.
I hate rich people problems. This is a rich people problem! Please, rent out your apartment, you don't need the money but then it's paying for its upkeep. It's more economical than sitting there unoccupied! Spare me the thought of the waste, ah, it's giving me a headache, all that unclaimed space...
Look, I'm quoting my jiejie again, so if it sounds sweet that's the only reason why, but people grow up when they grow up, and you can grow in love like you do anything else. It's not so bad being hitched to one cart for your life, if that's how you love, but here's the me part of the advice: not knowing if you are or aren't is fine too. Worrying about the future, why? Don't end up doing that when the now is a moment you have to live in too.
But seriously. Tell Wenzhou with all my respect, please can we just meet for coffee! I don't need surprise ambushes by police officials. That never goes well! It statistically only goes poorly!