( there's so much more to unpack there than Wei Wuxian's qualified for, but other things lead into a certain kind of understanding, and, uh, well, frankly, he's a friend talking about many difficult things, so the least he can do is listen and try to find some kind of understanding. )
Trusting anything is actually safe and then finding you're in that place, I don't know. I'm not you, but I can understand why that's weird for you? You've never had that. Or the being seen for what you don't want people to see, that's, uh, uncomfortable? When you're used to it being another way. Good all around, I think, Wenzhou is the kind of person that makes it okay, for you, so... Good luck.
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Trusting anything is actually safe and then finding you're in that place, I don't know. I'm not you, but I can understand why that's weird for you? You've never had that. Or the being seen for what you don't want people to see, that's, uh, uncomfortable? When you're used to it being another way. Good all around, I think, Wenzhou is the kind of person that makes it okay, for you, so... Good luck.